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bigeee

posted on Sep 21, 2007 - 11:27 PM

hello again fellow members i have a problem and that problem is that i lost controll of my emotions towards my girlfreind at the time... i threatned her accopleof times and mistreated her and said some very mean things to her.. i know it is no excuess but i found out my mom had cancer and i took all my anger out on her...i feel so horable for what i have done..yet she was there for me till she could not take it anymore... i want to some how do somthing more then apoligize i truley did love her and she truley did love me ... i need help on my emoitons and what to do thank you all

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hany58

posted on Sep 23, 2007 - 11:18 PM

Hello Biggieee,
Well first of all I hope that you are feeling better, from my point of view I will advice you on the following:

(1) Buy some very nice flowers
(2) Tell her everything in your heart and tell her that you did not mean to annoy her and that you were very upset that your mum has cancer and you didn't feel yourself when youtook it out at her, Give her the flowers (Girls love flowers)
(3) Tell her what she is for you and how much you care for her and that she is very important to your life,
(4) Thank her for everything she does for you and apologize again for hurting her and tell her that the fact that she is hurt by you is making you hurt more than her,

If this doesn't work out send me PM ok?

Yalla all the best but you better do my advice quickly because you don't want her to think that you forgot about her, mosh keda bardo?

Hany

Joined: Mar 20, 2007 | Posts: 167

minasfarag

posted on Sep 24, 2007 - 01:27 PM

hi bigee!

first i would like to tell you "shidd 7elak"... i know how hard this illness is... hopefully your mother will be cured.

but there is something more important for me to tell you: YOUR MOM NEEDS YOU NOW... if her illness is hard for you, please don`t forget that it could be much harder for herself. Maybe she is worrying about you and your brothers and sisters if you have any, or about your father or about the family`s future...

you know what: i think that instead of trying to become reconciled with a friend by spending time with her it`s more important to spend some more time with you mom and your familiy than before and to try helping your parents so that they don`t have to worry at least about you and your brothers and sisters...

Joined: Jun 19, 2003 | Posts: 3

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