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posted on Oct 13, 2007 - 09:42 PM

What is the Orthodox view on those people who made the choice to jump out of the Twin Towers on 9-11 instead of facing a burning building? Are they going to face the punishments that come along with blasphemy of the Holy Spirit (suicide)?

Is this sort of close to what happened to Samson when he committed suicide by breaking the pillars of the stadium that he was in? Pope Shenouda wrote about Samson and answered that question but the question about the people at 9-11 still remains.

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posted on Oct 14, 2007 - 02:54 AM

Hi George,
I really like your question, it can open up a great discussion. My personal opinion in this matter is that I think if people would have known that they are going to die if they jump, they wouldn't have done it, they did it only to skip from dying or being burned, and maybe the only think they thought about while jumping is to have another chance to live, many of those who jumped if not all of them had children, family, friends, and people whom they love and care about. So, I don't think that this is a sort of suicide because obviously they wanted to live and this what made them jump of out of windows.
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posted on Oct 14, 2007 - 04:38 AM

I think Suicide should be defined first off...
Suicide is the intentional taking of one's life. I think people really need to be logical concerning this topic because it seems that people are expecting Death to come smashing people in the face for it to be not qualified as Suicide, which is really not the case. What about those martyrs who knew of the decrees sent out by the government ordering Christians to die for their faith, that went to search for the governors who sent out such decrees to kill them...did they commit a form of suicide? Of Course Not!!!

Those people who jumped out of the twin towers did not intentionally kill themselves since they had never planned to die, but when Death came staring them in the face, they had two ways of dying, they took the less painful way of dying (Jumping out of these towers is a much less painful way of dying then being left to burn and then collapse to your death in a tower). They never intended their death like Judas did, they came to work that day thinking that it was going to be like any other day.

I can't think of any other reason a sane person would jump out of the towers if they were going to die anyway.

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posted on Oct 16, 2007 - 03:01 PM

From geomekhaiel:
Is this sort of close to what happened to Samson when he committed suicide by breaking the pillars of the stadium that he was in? Pope Shenouda wrote about Samson and answered
George Mekhaiel


can you point me to a url on this?

thanks, lowly

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posted on Oct 16, 2007 - 09:25 PM

hey,
i think this is a pretty interesting topic...
Can we look at that suicicide as a lack of faith in God. since it would only require the faith of a mustard seed to move a mountain? Would a lack of faith cost us our salvation?
Its always hard to say...but personally i think God is just and He knows our intentions.
But what did HH say about Samson?

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posted on Oct 19, 2007 - 08:55 PM

I heard a story of a nunery that was raided during the muslim conquest. One of the nuns was confronted by one of the attackers and quickly presented a bottle of oil while telling the man that this oil would prevent him from being harmed. He asked for proof, so the nun put some on her neck and told him to try and cut off her head. The sword cut her head off. When the man asked why she did this, the nuns told him that she would rather die then suffer at the hands of the muslim raiders. The nun did not ask to be killed, she waited for the muslim raider to ask for proof. He could have taken the bottle and left. We do not chose to die, we accept death when it comes. The people who jumped were given the same choice. Like Mikokiko said they chose one death over another, like nun who chose a quick death over possible rape and murder.
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posted on Oct 19, 2007 - 10:20 PM

I disagree!

No one can be positivly sure that their time has come; unless it has come to them through divine means like some of the saints. There are many stories of people who thought that they were going to die but where saved at the last moment. To assume one's death would be very unwise.

I don't think it is too smart for those people to have jumped out of the building because they don't know if by some chance a firefighter was going to bust their door in and save their lives before the towers fell.

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posted on Oct 19, 2007 - 11:48 PM

So your telling me that if you were in a room with fire in floors below you, smoke coming in from every side and cell phone calls exchanged with the outside world telling them that help is stuck on the bottom floors you wouldn't be scared. After the first tower collapsed, the people most likely lost hope, and i dont blame them. I would of panicked.

When it comes to jumping from the building, yes they assumed they were going to die, either from the fire, the smoke or the collapse of the structure. When we look back, how many people were able to escape the top floors? Not many. One group that was stuck in an elevator was able to get out safely, but the others were stuck because the stairs were gone. The escape plan was for the people to go to the top of the building if the bottom is blocked. We know there was no chance for them. There was too much smoke coming out of the building which blocked helicoptors from landing on top and rescueing people.

In my opinion those people most likely new the end was near. After a couple of minutes waiting for help and then seeing the first tower collapse they most likely became desperate. Even in the first tower, cell phones were most likely used to exchange messages. They most likely knew what was happening below them.

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posted on Oct 19, 2007 - 11:58 PM

From HonoringGod:So your telling me that if you were in a room with fire in floors below you, smoke coming in from every side and cell phone calls exchanged with the outside world telling them that help is stuck on the bottom floors you wouldn't be scared. After the first tower collapsed, the people most likely lost hope, and i dont blame them. I would of panicked.

No, I would put away fear in order to try to find a way out! There would be no time for fear, only survival. This is my natural instinct.

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posted on Oct 20, 2007 - 09:34 AM

Geomekhail, God gave us something called a Mind. This Mind observes the things it sees around it and through experience arrives at the best possible explanation. Just like how a simple mathematical calculation such as 2 + 2 = 4, is based on how we have observed nature and have arrived at a mathematical system to prove it.

If a person is in such a situation he is going to use logic. Like you said, you would escape from fear. Logic tells us if we are on the 59th floor of the building for example and the room is on fire and you are caught and cannot run out then the most logical thing to expect (that is the most probable) would be to escape this death for another. Whether you die or not is not a question, it is inevitable based on the logic you have arrived at. Either way this person should pray for his salvation, but not expect God to throw him a rope from heaven, to climb out of the building and gently let him down outside. So, if one believes that there is a chance of being saved while inside the building that is a different story. But we are talking about a person who will die anyways based on their logic, and has two choices for his death.

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posted on Feb 25, 2008 - 10:15 AM

if they were trying to jump for their lives then they will nt b punished b/c they didnt want to die but if they jumped bcoz they didnt want to be burned they preferre to be just die at once not burn then yes they will be punished and it is suicide

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posted on Feb 25, 2008 - 04:51 PM

From geomekhaiel:What is the Orthodox view on those people who made the choice to jump out of the Twin Towers on 9-11 instead of facing a burning building? Are they going to face the punishments that come along with blasphemy of the Holy Spirit (suicide)?

Is this sort of close to what happened to Samson when he committed suicide by breaking the pillars of the stadium that he was in? Pope Shenouda wrote about Samson and answered that question but the question about the people at 9-11 still remains.

George Mekhaiel


Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is NOT suicide. That's a common misconception. According to H.H. Pope Shenouda, blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is a perpetual rejection of it, that's why it's unforgivable, because it's a rejection of God. You need God to be forgiven, if you reject Him, there's no possibility of forgiveness.

That is not to say that suicide is not a major sin (the Church wouldn't even pray on someone who committed suicide while in a rational state of mind). However, in my opinion, the people who jumped would not be treated like someone who just commited suicide "in the comfort of his home." We really don't know how God will judge them.

It seems to me that suicide is so bad because you are deciding to take something which is not yours (your life). If you jump out of a building because you are dying anyway, then someone else made the decision for you, i.e. they decided you're going to die, not you. You are merely deciding the WAY in which you are going to die, not the timing. So, the element that makes suicide "bad" is no longer present.

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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 02:10 AM

From Truth.Seeker:
Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is NOT suicide.


Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is spiritual suicide. You reject God, as you said, and that is unforgivable because to receive forgiveness you can't reject God. Blaspheming against the Holy Spirit in essence becomes spiritual suicide because you exist without God and reject Him. ex: Satan rejected God and therefore exists in spiritual suicide.


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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 02:12 AM

The original poster wasn't talking about spiritual suicide, he was talking about physical suicide.

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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 02:16 AM

From Truth.Seeker:The original poster wasn't talking about spiritual suicide, he was talking about physical suicide.

I know but I wanted to put my opinion in regarding blasphemy not being spiritual suicide. Smile


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"My son, give me your heart, And let your eyes observe my ways." (Proverbs 23:26)

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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 02:44 AM

I am willing to argue that if one chooses to take his or her own life than that can be considered blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. A prime example of this is judas iscariout himself, who betrayed our Lord. So its not only spiritual, but physial as well. If one was to deny that God could help them or forgive them of there sins, then he or she has committed that blasphemy just like judas.

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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 02:58 AM

From AMoussa01:I am willing to argue that if one chooses to take his or her own life than that can be considered blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. A prime example of this is judas iscariout himself, who betrayed our Lord. So its not only spiritual, but physial as well. If one was to deny that God could help them or forgive them of there sins, then he or she has committed that blasphemy just like judas.

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H.H. Pope Shenouda III, in his exegesis of the verse, said that "blasphemy of the Holy Spirit" is a perpetual rejection of the Holy Spirit, and that is why it is not forgiven.

The ONLY reason suicide is an automatic way to hell (if committed by a rational person) is because that person had no chance to repent (because he/she is dead).

In this respect, if you want to hold that suicide is blaspheming against the Holy Spirit, then ALL sins are blaspheming against the holy spirit, as long as you die while committing them/instantly after committing them.

I.e. if you are climbing up a building to rob a house, and you fall and die, you have just committed blasphemy against the Holy Spirit.

Losing faith in God is no less "not believing He can help you" than committing suicide. I.e. if you become an atheist, not only do you think He can't help you, you believe He doesn't even exist. If suicide is unforgivable because you don't think He can help you (remember, the original verse said that blaspheming against the Holy Spirit is the ONE sin that cannot be forgiven), then if you become an atheist, then that's it, even if you believe in God afterwards, you will still not be forgiven.

Again, the only reason people think that verse talks about suicide, is because they know suicide is a sin you can't repent from (if carried out). If that is the logic, then any sin committed followed by death is a blaspheming of the Holy Spirit. If that is the case, then it's not about the sin, it's about dying after the sin. That means the punishment isn't because of the sin, but because you can't repent after it. That's now how punishment works.

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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 04:07 AM

Truth.Seeker,

I implore you to read what i wrote carefully. When you said: "The ONLY reason suicide is an automatic way to hell (if committed by a rational person) is because that person had no chance to repent (because he/she is dead)." I disagree here. Do you really believe that those who are permitted to heaven must be required to repent for every single sin they have committed? I, for one, believe that that is very impractical. How on earth do you expect people to remember every single sin they have committed? Your arguement is very fallible.

"In this respect, if you want to hold that suicide is blaspheming against the Holy Spirit, then ALL sins are blaspheming against the holy spirit, as long as you die while committing them/instantly after committing them."

Again, your missing the point of my claim. In the case of other sins, you can return back to the Lord and ask for forgiveness; making you a "new" person. The problem with suicide is that, you are denying the fact that you can be saved...this is when the person is intentionally committing suicide. This is a sin that one can NOT turn back from once it is done.

Just like Overgrown egyptian said: "Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is spiritual suicide." The whole point of suicide is that you can not turn back from it. Therefore, the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is something which one can not turn back from, physically(suicide) and spiritually. So if an athiest stays an athiest all his life and never turns back, then that is an example of denying the Holy Spirit i.e. God. This is not different from what you stated above: "It's a rejection of God."

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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 02:51 PM

Tony,

I read your post carefully before I replied. The fact that I disagree doesn't mean I didn't understand your post. You didn't even tell me what I misunderstood about your post. That just tells me that you think the mere fact I disagree with you means I misunderstood you. It just means I think you're wrong Smile.

What you're saying is nothing short of "taking Route A" means "taking Route B" because you arrive at Destination X in both cases. That's not how logic works. I-80 W is not the same as I-80 E because they will both get you to Sacramento. They are two different roads.

You are required to repent for EVERY non-petty sin you know you have committed (not according to me, according to the most authoritative Copt alive - the Pope). Suicide is one of those sins. These are "deadly" sins that you will not be forgiven for unless you repent of them. Infact, the Coptic Church doesn't pray on a person who has committed suicide for the ONLY reason that that person could not have repented. The only sins you can "get away with" without repenting are what His Holiness calls "petty sins." These are sins you didn't know about, etc...

Again, according to His Holiness, the meaning of the verse is that you will not be forgiven if you PERPETUALLY (note that perpetually means doing an act REPEATEDLY) reject the Holy Spirit. If you want to argue that committing suicide is a rejection of the Holy Spirit, then that is rejecting it at a SINGLE time (time of the suicide).

In that regard, committing ANY sin is a rejection of the Holy Spirit at a SINGLE time. We know we can be forgiven for these sins, that means this is not the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit Christ was talking about. Therefore, the premise for telling me that suicide means blasphemy of the Holy Spirit fails.
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What the Pope wrote on blasphemy of the Holy Spirit:

Question:

The verse that says "Therefore I say to you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven " (Matt. 12:31)
alarm me very much. Sometimes I think that I committed the sin of blasphemy so I fall into despair. Please explain the meaning of the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit? And how is that there is no forgiveness eitherin this age or in the age to come? How does this unforgiveness coincide with the mercy of God and His many promises?

Answer:

All your fears are temptations from the devil to make you fall into despair so be comforted.

As for the meaning of the blasphemy against the Spirit and the sin that is without forgiveness, this, with the grace of God I shall explain to you.

The blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is not the unbelief in the Holy Spirit or His Divinity or His work and it is not insulting of the Holy Spirit. If the atheists believe, God forgives them for their unbelief and their mockery of God and His Holy Spirit. All those who followed Macedonius in his heresy and his denial of the Divinity of the Holy Spirit, when repented the church accepted, them and forgave them.

What then is the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit? And why there is no forgiveness for it?

The blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is the complete and continuous refusal of any work of the Spirit in the heart which is a life time refusal.

As a result of this refusal, man does not repent and accordingly God does not forgive him.

God in His mercy accepts every repentance and forgives as He said, "The one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out" (John 6:37) and the saints were correct in their saying: "All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out".

There is no sin without forgiveness except that without repentance.

So if a person dies in his sin without repentance, he will perish as the Lord said "Unless you repent you will all likewise perish " (Luke 13:5).

(My Note: in this respect suicide is like doing any other sin and dying while doing it. No chance of repentance.)

Then non repentance till death is the only sin that is without forgiveness. If the matter is so, that brings up a question:

What is the relation between lack of repentance and the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit?

Obviously, a person cannot repent without the work of the Spirit in him. For the Holy Spirit will reprove the world of sin (John 16:8.) and lead the person in the spiritual life and encourage him. He is the power that aids in every good work.

Without the communion of the Holy Spirit, no one can accomplish any spiritual work.

So the refusal of the communion of the Holy Spirit (2 Cor 13:14) absolutely can not produce any good. For all the works of righteousness the apostle had put under the title "fruit of the Spirit" (GaL 5:22). That person without any fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire (Matt. 3:10) & (John 15:4-5).
He who refuses the Spirit, will not repent, and will not bring forth any spiritual fruit.

If his refusal of the Spirit is a complete and life long refusal, then he will spend all his life without repentance, without works of righteousness and without fruit of the Spirit, so of course he will perish. This is the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit.

It is not that the person grieves the Spirit (Eph. 4:30) or quenches the Spirit (1Thess. 5:19) or resists the Spirit (Acts 7:51) but it is the complete and persistent refusal of the Spirit. So he would not repent and would not have fruits in a righteous life.

Here we are faced with a question:

What if a person refuses all works of the Spirit then turns back and accepts Him and repents?
We say that his repentance and acceptance of the Spirit even just before the end of his life, is an indication that the Spirit of God still works in him and led him to repentance. Then his refusal of the Spirit was not complete and not life long. A case like this is not a blasphemy against the Holy Spirit according to the definition mentioned before.

To fall into a sin that has no forgiveness is a form of a war of the devil against us to make us fall into despair which will destroy us, make us depressed; and that does not help us in any spiritual work.

To the person that asked the question I say: the mere asking of the question is an indication of your concern about eternal fate. This is not blasphemy against the Spirit.

Now we need to answer the last part of the question.

How does this unforgiveness coincide with the mercy of God?

God is always ready to forgive and nothing prevents His forgiveness, but the important thing is that the person repents to deserve forgiveness.

If the person refuses repentance, God waits for his repentance till the uttermost breath of his life, as happened with the thief at the Lord's right hand. If the person refuses to repent all his life and refuses the work of the Spirit in him till the time of his death then he not God-blessed be His name would be responsible for the perishing of his soul.

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What the Pope wrote on praying for the deceased:

Question:

Can a Christian who dies in a state of sin enter the kingdom of heaven? I don't see how he can. So what is the use of praying for someone who has died when we don't know whether he has died in a state of sin or repentance?

Answer:

We don't have to pray for someone who has died whilst sinning. Prayer will not benefit him, and our master St John said:

"There is sin leading to death. I do not say that he should pray about that." (1 John 5:16).

If a thief climbs up the walls of a house in order to burgle it, and falls down and dies in the process, the Church would not pray for him. And if drug smugglers get into a fight with the police and get killed during this fight, the Church does not pray for them either. And if a person who has an intelligent mind and commits suicide, the Church does not pray for him.

(My Note: notice how Pope Shenouda lumps up suicide in the same category as any other sin you die while committing).

Therefore, if the Church can be sure that the person has died whilst in the act of committing a sin, it doesn't pray for him.

But in other cases, it would certainly pray for someone who had died, so that he could at least depart from the world having been absolved by the Church, so that he is no longer bound in any way. That person is then left to the mercy of the One who searches men's hearts and the One who knows all secrets.

It is as if the Church is saying to God: this person has been released from our side by the authority to loose and bind which You gave to us (Matt. 18:18; John 20:23), and so we leave him now to Your mercy and to Your knowledge which is beyond ours.

The Church also prays on behalf of the one who is passing on, for him to be forgiven any sins which he may have committed which weren't of the degree that leads to death, according to the instruction of the apostle.

As an example of this St. John said: " If anyone sees his brother sinning a sin which does not lead to death, he will ask, and He will give him life for those who commit sin not leading to death. There is sin leading to death. I do not say that he should pray about that. All unrighteousness is sin, and there is sin not leading to death. " (1 John 5:16-17)

So what are these sins that do not lead to death?

They are uncompleted sins, sins that have not been fully carried out. They may be sins of ignorance, sins committed unintentionally, or sins that are latent, or sins of negligence, for example.

We pray in the Trisagion saying:

[Forgive, absolve and pardon us, O God, for the wrongs we have done intentionally, those we have done knowingly, and those we have done unknowingly, the secret and the open.]

But unintentional sins, sins of ignorance and unseen sins are nevertheless still sins (because they violate God's commandments and require forgiveness and prayer).

In the Old Testament, we see that even in the case of sins committed unintentionally without knowing, as soon as one became aware, one had to offer a sacrifice so that they might be forgiven. (Lev. 4:2,13,22-23).

The Church prays that the Lord would forgive any of these sins of ignorance or of negligence, or any sins committed unintentionally and unknowingly, which those who have passed over might have committed.
The Reciter says in the psalm: "Who can understand his errors? Cleanse me from secret faults. " (Ps. 19:12) It is for these hidden faults which the person is not aware of having, that the Church asks forgiveness on his behalf.

Let us suppose that a person has died suddenly without having had a chance to confess, or that he has forgotten to confess some sins, and therefore hasn't received an absolution for them. The Church can give him absolution and asks forgiveness for him, in the Prayer for the Departed.

The Church, therefore, prays for the sake of the departed out of a kind of compassion, because no-one is without sin, even if his life on earth lasts only one day (and this is a phrase which comes in part of the Prayer for the Departed).

David said: "If You, O Lord, kept a record of sins, O Lord who could stand? But with You there is forgiveness... " (Ps. 129:3-4) And he also said: " Do not enter into judgment with Your servant, For in Your sight no one living is righteous. " (Ps. 143:2) So if this is the situation, that there is no servant without a fault, and no master who is not forgiving, we pray for those who have passed away [Being human beings who put on the body and lived in the world].

We pray for everyone in this state, since only God is good. We ask for forgiveness and then leave the matter to God, always knowing that any human being might perhaps have repented even if it was at the hour of his death.

But for those who have died in the act of committing a deliberate sin, without having repented, we do not pray, since our prayers in these circumstances would be going against God's goodness and justice.

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My point is that, although, suicide will get you to the same place that blasphemy of the Holy Spirit will, it itself is not that blasphemy. In other words, the verse is just not talking about suicide. That's what I meant when I said because Route A and Route B get you to Destination X, that doesn't mean that Route A and Route B are the same thing.


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posted on Feb 26, 2008 - 05:44 PM

Truth.Seeker,

I am still willing to argue that suicide still has much to do with blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. That is not to say that I disagree with our beloved pope! Are you not denying God when you take your own life? Are you not denying the fact that God can still forgive your sins? Are you not denying the grace that God has given you when you take your own life? These are some interesting points to consider.

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From AMoussa01:Truth.Seeker,

I am still willing to argue that suicide still has much to do with blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. That is not to say that I disagree with our beloved pope! Are you not denying God when you take your own life? Are you not denying the fact that God can still forgive your sins? Are you not denying the grace that God has given you when you take your own life? These are some interesting points to consider.

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Tony,

No, a person is doing all of that when they commit suicide (you are right). However, a person is doing most of those things with any sin. With every sin a person commits, he is denying God, denying the grace God has given us (Holy Spirit), etc...

By your definition, any and all sins are blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. By the Pope's definition, "blasphemy against the Holy Spirit" is perpetual rejection of it.

One of the interpretations has to give. The big problem I have with why you say suicide is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is that those premises apply to every other sin (denying God, the Holy Spirit, etc...), and if blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is not forgivable, then we're all doomed.

Granted, suicide is different because you are ending your chances of repentance. However, murder is the same thing - you are ending the victim's chances of repenting. Since we are all "equal," there's no reason why ending your own chances of repenting would be punished differently than ending someone else's chances. So, if suicide is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit because you're ending your chances of repentance, murder should be equal blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. And if you murder someone, you will never be forgiven. That can't be the result, because we both know that can be forgiven.

If you want, we can say that "any sin is a partial blasphemy of the Holy Spirit if the sinner never repents." That way, the bunch of "partial blasphemies" add up to be "complete blasphemy" if a person never repents. Does that satisfy you?


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Truth.Seeker,

"So, if suicide is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit because you're ending your chances of repentance, murder should be equal blasphemy of the Holy Spirit." I, once again, respectfully disagree with that statement. Suicide is a final judgement you bring upon yourself; that is what distinguishes it from other sins. And by choosing to end your chances of repentance, than one can say that is as equally bad as if to continously reject God.

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"Equally as bad" does not mean "the same thing." This goes back to my Routes and Destination example. We're not arguing about whether the punishments are the same. We are debating whether "suicide" is "blasphemy of the Holy Spirit." Not whether both of those things will get you to hell.

Murdering and stealing will both get you to hell if you don't repent, but that doesn't mean that murder and stealing are the same thing.

If people are equal, why is a judgment you bring upon yourself not the same thing as a judgment you bring upon someone else? A person you murder has no more of a chance of repentance than you if you commit suicide.

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Tony Sawiris,

I agree with almost all of what you have wrote. I actually completely forgot that I had made this topic a while back and I am pleased to see that it has been resurrected. It is very interesting that you have brought up the quotes from Pope Shenouda, quotes which I am very familiar with seeing that a few years back I was extremely interested in the suicide of Samson.

Tony Moza,

Believe it or not, I also agree with some of what you have written (in part) seeing that it is something that I myself was also taught as a younger child by the clergy of the church. I understand where you are coming from. I think your only problem is a problem with terminology.

Tony(ies),

To help put together an answer for my own question I am going to have to attempt to find a common ground between the two arguments which both of you have very well presented.

First of all, Mr. Moza, the definition of suicide that Mr. Sawiris gave is perfect and so is his understanding of Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. The argument between you two seems to derive itself from whether or not suicide can be called, "Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit?"

The answer to that difficult question is "yes" and "no"

"Yes" ONLY because it is has the same final affect as Blasphemy against the Holy Spirit....eternal condemnation!

"No" for all the great and wonderful reasons that Mr. Sawiris already gave.

....my favorite part of his reply was the Route A and Route B part showing that both Routes lead you to the same place but are very different things.

I think that the problem is just a name labeling problem and, to be safe, it is probably best not to call suicide, "Blasphemy against the Holy Spirit" although it gives you the same result, it is a very different thing. Blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is perpetual where as suicide is transitory.

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I have a question concerning those who are considered mentally ill. I was told that they are not condemned for killing themselves because of their disease. It just occurred to me...how can someone commit suicide and not be mentally ill? Also, I thought that God does not give us more than we can handle, it seems that these people could not handle what was going on in their lives (i am speaking of those who are considered not mentally ill). Anyway, i would like to hear what you guys have to say...and please provide references if possible. Thanks

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