kirollosab
posted on Jun 10, 2008 - 05:01 AM
you guys went out of topic...
you don't need to convert the guy... just like mina soliman said... all you do is pt to the place, and God will take care of the rest...
you do not need to convince him on your own...
i don't mean to come off too strong, i'm just trying to help... if the fella' speaks arabic there are books that will help... i wouldnt recommend you doing this on ur own... get help from people in the field (if you live in CA, i would say Fr. Bishoy Kamel, from St. Marina COC would be a perfect choice because he talked to us abuot these topics, and he knows the quaran, and he knows what he's talking abuot).
if the person you're trying to convince does not speak arabic there are still many ways to convert him...
all you have to do is first of all pray for him, and talk to a father from church who knows the argument: he'll take it from there!
there's no point in proving to him that islam is bad... just prove to him that Christianity is true, and it's the way to go.
Let's say we're playing basketball, and you don't shoot with the correct form; i wouldn't come up to you (if i was wise) and attack you saying your form is wrong (because i would lose you, meaning you'll be too mad at me making myself ur teacher, and becoming cocky) rather i would come up, and after noticing many misses... i'll introduce a new form, try to convince u that it works... name off a few ppol that use it in the NBA, demonstrate it, and you might be convinced to try it... this of course would depend on the person whom i'm shoing hte form...
i don't know if you get my analogy! what i meant to say, in short, is that you obviously told him that Christinaity is the right way because you're living as a Chrsistian, and you're showing him where to seek answers, the church! now all you have to do is pray for him...
idk if i answered your question... but my main point is don't do it on your own... make sure you have back up from church...
i'll end my post by reprinting something i've heard from a trusted source. Fr. Bishoy Brownfield once told someone who told me that "in college, or elsewhere, you will be attacked; the church has the answers... don't ever let yourself be put in a spot where you have to answer right away, ask for time to think, and then come back with the answer" (rephrased)!
please keep me in your prayers!
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