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Corinthians 7: On Marriage and Celibacy

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posted on Sep 30, 2008 - 11:10 PM

"The Lord Jesus didn't say that Celibacy is better. He said you are better off being a Celibate, if you have the God-given power. There is a difference."

You speak as if Celibacy can exist on its own without human involvement. For there to be Celibacy, there must be a Celibate. If someone is better off by being a Celibate, then Celibacy is better.

Whenever we talk about Celibacy or Marriage, we are of course talking about them as related to humans. I don't know what you're trying to parse through.

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posted on Oct 01, 2008 - 06:30 AM

You've misunderstood me. We could be agreeing on the same thing here, it might just be a matter of semantics. In general, we are PROBABLY going to reap better results (in virtues), if we become Celibates. That is we are better off becoming Celibates if we want to be Perfect. But we can still be Perfect and be Married as well, it is just less likely to happen. That's it. So if we are speaking in a very general sense, without considering what actions ACTUALLY follow from our decisions, yes Celibacy is a better choice. But if we do consider what actions ACTUALLY follow, we say either can be a road to Perfection. Both are a means to the Sinless.

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posted on Oct 01, 2008 - 12:24 PM

Herein lies the problem - I keep saying ALL ELSE EQUAL, you keep telling me what ACTUALLY follows. The "all else equal" means these "consequences" don't come into play. I.e. the celibate isn't murdering, the celibate isn't committing adultery, etc... If that was the case, than the celibate did not "become a eunoch for the sake of God."

One must sell all he/she has and follow Him to be perfect; a married couple can become "perfect...for a married couple," but will not reach the optimal level of perfection.

How many married saints do you know of? Compare than # to unmarried saints you know of. The former will be part of that .00001% I mentioned earlier.

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posted on Oct 01, 2008 - 02:17 PM

Truth_Seeker,

There is actually an entire book dedicated to exploring the example of married Orthodox saints in the Church with an edifying forward by Eastern Orthodox Bishop Kallistos Ware:

Marriage As a Path to Holiness: Lives of Married Saints

GBU,
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posted on Oct 01, 2008 - 04:06 PM

PaulS,

Thanks for the reference.

St. Peter comes to mind as an example of a married saint. I'm not sure the Coptic Orthodox Church would recognize many of the saints in that book since it's an Eastern Orthodox production - certainly none after 451 A.D.

My point, however, is not that there are no married saints. I was illustrating that celibate saints are much more common, and that that fact is not due to a coincidence.

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posted on Oct 01, 2008 - 05:41 PM

Truth.Seeker, you could not conclude the following:
I keep saying ALL ELSE EQUAL, you keep telling me what ACTUALLY follows. The "all else equal" means these "consequences" don't come into play. I.e. the celibate isn't murdering, the celibate isn't committing adultery, etc... If that was the case, than the celibate did not "become a eunoch for the sake of God."
from these words of mine:
So if we are speaking in a very general sense, without considering what actions ACTUALLY follow from our decisions, yes Celibacy is a better choice. But if we do consider what actions ACTUALLY follow, we say either can be a road to Perfection. Both are a means to the Sinless.

Let me give you an example of what I mean. Most people will tell you that it is better to study for an exam by trying to grasp the ideas and concepts, and fully understanding them, rather than by simply memorizing all the things you have to remember. However, the the whole goal (which we should never lose sight of), is to achieve high marks on the exam. In general, for most people, the safer bet is trying to understand the concepts, rather than memorization. But for certain people, the easier way to get better marks within a same given period of time, is to memorize the facts. This is taken purely from a pragmatic viewpoint of course. (Pragmatism cannot be applied to virtues).

However, with Celibacy and Matrimony, a person is better off achieving the virtue of Self-Control, and Self-Denial, and staying away from the sin of indulgence and gluttony, by being a Celibate than a married. However, you can still reach those virtues, even though you are in a more "risky" situation, so to speak, when you are married.

I hope I have made my point clear this time around.

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posted on Oct 01, 2008 - 06:12 PM

Miko, the problem with what you say is that you think celibacy is merely a road to virtues without being a virtue in and of itself. In this, we disagree. Take, for example, these passages from St. Jerome's letter to Eustochium:

LETTER XXII: TO EUSTOCHIUM.

5. … I will say it boldly, though God can do all things He cannot raise up a virgin when once she has fallen. He may indeed relieve one who is defiled from the penalty of her sin, but He will not give her a crown. Let us fear lest in us also the prophecy be fulfilled, "Good virgins shall faint." Notice that it is good virgins who are spoken of, for there are bad ones as well. "Whosoever looketh on a woman," the Lord says, "to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." So that virginity may be lost even by a thought. Such are evil virgins, virgins in the flesh, not in the spirit; foolish virgins, who, having no oil, are shut out by the Bridegroom.

12. Do you wish for proof of my assertions? Take examples. Sampson was braver than a lion and tougher than a rock; alone and unprotected he pursued a thousand armed men; and yet, in Delilah's embrace, his resolution melted away. David was a man after God's own heart, and his lips had often sung of the Holy One, the future Christ; and yet as he walked upon his housetop he was fascinated by Bathsheba's nudity, and added murder to adultery. Notice here how, even in his own house, a man cannot use his eyes without danger. Then repenting, he says to the Lord: "Against thee, thee only, have I sinned and done this evil in Thy sight." Being a king he feared no one else.
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17. … It is hard for the human soul to avoid loving something, and our mind must of necessity give way to affection of one kind or another. The love of the flesh is overcome by the love of the spirit. Desire is quenched by desire. What is taken from the one increases the other. Therefore, as you lie on your couch, say again and again: "By night have I sought Him whom my soul loveth." "Mortify, therefore," says the apostle, "your members which are upon the earth." Because he himself did so, he could afterwards say with confidence: "I live, yet not I, but Christ, liveth in me." He who mortifies his members, and feels that he is walking in a vain show, is not afraid to say: "I am become like a bottle in the frost. Whatever there was in me of the moisture of lust has been dried out of me." And again: "My knees are weak through fasting; I forget to eat my bread. By reason of the voice of my groaning my bones cleave to my skin."

19. Some one may say, "Do you dare detract from wedlock, which is a state blessed by God?" I do not detract from wedlock when I set virginity before it. No one compares a bad thing with a good. Wedded women may congratulate themselves that they come next to virgins. "Be fruitful," God says, "and multiply, and replenish the earth." He who desires to replenish the earth may increase and multiply if he will. But the train to which you belong is not on earth, but in heaven. The command to increase and multiply first finds fulfilment after the expulsion from paradise, after the nakedness and the fig-leaves which speak of sexual passion. Let them marry and be given in marriage who eat their bread in the sweat of their brow; whose land brings forth to them thorns and thistles, and whose crops are choked with briars. My seed produces fruit a hundredfold. "All men cannot receive God's saying, but they to whom it is given." Some people may be eunuchs from necessity; I am one of free will. … In paradise Eve was a virgin, and it was only after the coats of skins that she began her married life. Now paradise is your home too. Keep therefore your birthright and say: "Return unto thy rest, O my soul." To show that virginity is natural while wedlock only follows guilt, what is born of wedlock is virgin flesh, and it gives back in fruit what in root it has lost. "There shall come forth a rod out of the stem of Jesse, and a flower shall grow out of his roots." The rod is the mother of the Lord--simple, pure, unsullied; drawing no germ of life from without but fruitful in singleness like God Himself. The flower of the rod is Christ, who says of Himself: "I am the rose of Sharon and the lily of the valleys." In another place He is foretold to be "a stone cut out of the mountain without hands," a figure by which the prophet signifies that He is to be born a virgin of a virgin. For the hands are here a figure of wedlock as in the passage: "His left hand is under my head and his right hand doth embrace me. …
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Also consider the following, from St. Jerome's "Against Jovinian" - here, he is talking about the verses from St. Paul I provided in previous posts:

"It is good," he [St. Paul] says, "for a man not to touch a woman." If it is good not to touch a woman, it is bad to touch one: for there is no opposite to goodness but badness. But if it be bad and the evil is pardoned, the reason for the concession is to prevent worse evil. But surely a thing which is only allowed because there may be something worse has only a slight degree of goodness. He would never have added "let each man have his own wife," unless he had previously used the words "but, because of fornications." Do away with fornication, and he will not say "let each man have his own wife."

http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/source/j ... riage.html

Rather than flood this post with other passages, we can continue with what other Fathers have said if and when you reply to this.

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posted on Oct 01, 2008 - 06:24 PM

More Fathers...

<b>Saint Athanasius the Great:</b> "There are two ways in life. One is ordinary and worldly, that is marriage; the other one is angelic and a higher one, that is celibacy. If someone chooses the worldly way — marriage — he will not be censured, but he will not receive the same gifts. However, he will receive some of them, because he brings the thirty-fold fruit. But if one chooses a glorious way which is high above the world he will receive more wonderful gifts, though this way is more mournful and difficult than the first one: because he has brought a perfect and hundred-fold fruit."

<b>Saint Gregory the Theologian:</b> "There are two possible ways in life — marriage and celibacy, and the latter is higher and more godlike, but it is more difficult and dangerous, and the former is lower, but more safe..." "Neither celibacy, nor marriage connect or disconnect us with God or with the world entirely, so that one could be worthy of abhorrence, and the other of unconditional praise. On the contrary, the mind must be a good governor both in marriage and in celibacy, and to create virtue in them like an artist in a certain material..." "Though marriage has an earthly origin and celibacy makes us brides to Christ the King, it happens, however, that celibacy throws us down to earth, and marriage brings us to Heaven. That is why, if one began to blame marriage and another one celibacy, both would be wrong..." "Virginal life is better, really better; but if it serves the world and the earth it is worse than marriage."

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posted on Oct 03, 2008 - 03:48 AM

Truth.Seeker, both you and I know, that we don't take one statement from one Church Father and make it absolute truth, because we know that individually, no matter how great of a Church Father you are, we make mistakes and are fallible. But as one Body the gates of Hades shall not prevail against us. Most of the Church Fathers disagree with eachother. Some thought of sex in general, as a sin, but when procreation is involved, merely a pardonable sin. Some thought of sex as a consequence of our fall. St. Augustine believes that Adam and Eve were kicked out of the Garden because of sex (when they were husband and wife and one flesh). We have H.G. Bishop Moussa in our Church today, who believes that sex was not a consequence of the fall, but would have been in practice had we not fallen from Paradise as a holy union in Matrimony. We have Church Fathers like St. Gregory the Theologian who match more of the modern day view. We have the vast majority of Church Fathers, being against the use of contraceptives (as the Roman Catholic Church), while our Church today is not.

The topic is complicated and very different on all boards. So don't think that copy pasting what some Church Fathers have said is going to solve any problems. I could easily have given you many examples of many of today's clergy's views which are radically different than those of St. John Chrysostom and St. Athanasius to name some of the most prominent. They are great saints, no doubt, but the Church of today simply does not agree with them on certain issues of Celibacy and relations. They did not allow the use of contraceptives, and now these are allowed.

The point I am trying to make is the point that the Coptic Orthodox Church has given me in this present day and age. She says both Matrimony, one of the seven Sacraments of the Church, is holy, just as Celibacy is holy. Both are used as a means to reach the Sinless. If both are a means to reach the sinless, neither of course can be sinful. And by all means, neither can be inherently sinful. The sexual organs were created for a reason, as everything created by God has a purpose intended behind it. If Celibacy (and Matrimony) were really virtues in and of themselves (with Celibacy being greater), then what you and many of these Saints are saying is meaningless. Why? Because what's the whole point? The whole point of Celibacy is self-control, to stay away from indulging in immoral sinful passions and lusts. But a perfect married couple could reach these things just as well as any Celibate.

God Bless

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posted on Oct 03, 2008 - 01:02 PM

So, basically, I am to ignore clear verses of the Bible, and ignore all exegesis of those clear verses by Church Fathers, and listen to you. Not my style.

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posted on Oct 03, 2008 - 01:27 PM

Miko - TODAY'S Church, the Coptic Orthodox Church at least, STILL teaches that there's a crown for celibacy in Heaven. There is no crown for having been married. Just that fact, which I mentioned a while ago, is enough to show you that TODAY'S CHURCH agrees with those Fathers.

Today's clergy get most of their theology from these Fathers that you so easily side-lined. If you're going to tell me they say the Fathers are wrong, you should give me names and quotes. "IT IS GOOD FOR A MAN TO NOT TOUCH A WOMAN." - ST. PAUL, not some obscure priest somewhere.

"Why? Because what's the whole point? The whole point of Celibacy is self-control, to stay away from indulging in immoral sinful passions and lusts. But a perfect married couple could reach these things just as well as any Celibate."

No, the whole point is that God said celibacy is better. What you are doing is nothing short of taking what God said, speculating about why He said it, then making what He said irrelevant by thinking of other means to get to why He said it. The only problem is that the only Person who can fully understand why God said something is God.

Here, for some fun:

"The whole point of 'thou shalt not kill' is that it causes an adrenaline rush in the body. It is bad for one to not control their adrenaline and from indulging in too much of it. Therefore, if someone just kills someone carelessly without much adrenaline involved, it is just fine."

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posted on Oct 03, 2008 - 01:45 PM

And those were three Church Fathers, not one.

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posted on Oct 03, 2008 - 05:25 PM

Truth.seeker, I admire your desire to stay truthful to the Gospel and the Church Fathers, but you are not understanding where I am coming from at all. First off, any interpretation based on a verse or two or three in the Scriptures, must have the ENTIRE context of the Scriptures informing it. So if I make a "speculation" on what the Lord Jesus says about something, I am not making it on my own personal opinion but on what the Lord Jesus Himself taught.

It is sad to say, that some in the Church have begun to teach rules, and not a system of belief. Some people believe that the Church is about trying to get her children to memorize different doctrines. But nothing could be further from the Truth. Every doctrine in the Church is connected to another one in some way. The Mystery of the Resurrection is connected with Christ's Crucifixion, which is connected with the Incarnation, which is connected to the Trinity, which is connected with creation. Christianity is not simply a set of rules compiled together into one big book. No! It is a philosophy, we have to understand it and live it, its a system. So why do I say all this? Because the Lord Jesus Himself said the following in this passage:
"When He had entered a house away from the crowd, His disciples asked Him concerning the parable. So He said to them, “Are you thus without understanding also? Do you not perceive that whatever enters a man from outside cannot defile him, because it does not enter his heart but his stomach, and is eliminated, thus purifying all foods?” And He said, “What comes out of a man, that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a man.” (Mark 7:17-23)


So what is our Lord trying to say here? He is saying the true sins are not caused simply from the body. They don't start in the body, or else, those purely physical beings, i.e. the Animal Kingdom, and heck even the Plant Kingdom, would stand before Christ on Judgment Day, but they will not, because we have another component: the mind, which is not physical. I've said this before, and I will say it again. The true sins and virtues are really spiritual ones. So let us establish this as premise one:
1. Nothing physical is sinful in and of itself, as both St. Paul and the Lord Jesus Himself have said.

Now lets go on to establish another premise:
"The whole point of 'thou shalt not kill' is that it causes an adrenaline rush in the body. It is bad for one to not control their adrenaline and from indulging in too much of it. Therefore, if someone just kills someone carelessly without much adrenaline involved, it is just fine."

This is what I mean. The Scriptures offer us an understanding of the complete fabric of Christian morality and ethics. For one, we have already established that the mind is the source of our will and our actions. Therefore the act of killing in and of itself cannot be called a sin, but what makes it a sin is hatred, as St. John the Theologian says: "Whoever hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him."
Whoever lusts period, is an adulterer, as the Lord Jesus says: But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Now let's apply all this and try to understand the spirit of Christian morality, rather than try to memorize separate facts, as if fact A had nothing to do with fact B.

Christ is saying we cannot gain virtues solely from the body. So let's take what you said before, in general if all else is equal, a Celibate is better in virtue than a married person (which means that marriage is somehow sinful, since it prevents someone from reaching perfection). But now lets put it under the scrutiny of the Lord Jesus' teaching.
Let's assume what you said is true, and make it the second premise to my argument:
2. Celibacy is a virtue in itself

Since you say all else equal, let's assume that a man came down to earth and all that he ever did was to choose between being married and therefore fulfill the union between his wife, or become a Celibate. Let's assume he has ALL the other virtues. Self-control and everything. But it solely boiled down to his choosing one of the two. In such a case, his choice would boil down to that of simply the body, and nothing else. Which is contrary to what Christ taught. It would be a matter of joining the matrimonial bond with someone and using his sexual organs or not. That's it. Which is false. Therefore this conclusion must follow from my two previous premises:
1. Sin and Virtue both depend on the mind, not on the Body
2. Celibacy is a virtue
3. Celibacy depends on the mind, and not on the Body

Do you see the implications of what you are saying? If what we said was true Celibacy would not solely mean giving up sex and marriage, just as adultery, in Christ's definition (since it does not depend on the body), does not solely mean that a man must lay with another woman. When looking at the entire context of what the Lord Jesus says, we can better understand (not fully, of course), we can't full understand anything at all, let alone God, because we are not Omniscient like He is, and yet He does provide us with some minute understanding of Him, to not leave us in the darkness of blind faith. A person who becomes Celibate, is in a better position (and will 9 times out of ten), be a better person, than a married person. In other words, he is better off. If we are able to do it, we should do it, Christ says. Not that it is in and of itself better than the union of one flesh in Matrimony that Christ also institutionalized. A Celibate is in a better position for self-sacrifice, he is in a better position for self-control, he is in a better position of staying away from indulging in passions and lusts. But there is nothing inherently good about not using a certain creation that God made for a certain reason. Let's understand His message, and not memorize it truth.seeker.

From Truth.Seeker:So, basically, I am to ignore clear verses of the Bible, and ignore all exegesis of those clear verses by Church Fathers, and listen to you. Not my style.

Where did I say that? Don't paint a picture of an infidel and replace it with mine. I never said something like that, nor implied. I am saying the modern teaching of the Church on sex has shifted from those of the earlier Church Fathers. Really shifted. I mean St. John Chrysostom and St. Augustine, really believed that procreation, was a pardonable sin in marriage. Others like St. Gregory the Theologian didn't.

Their views and the modern views on contraception have changed. And not one of these Church Fathers wholeheartedly agree with each other on sexual issues themselves. Again, go read through the long treatises of St. Augustine, perhaps the greatest saint of his day, and you will be aware of what I am saying. He believed the sexual union, whether in marriage or not, to be a corruption in man, as a result of the fall. While I will be surprised if you can find me a handful of priests who will agree with him today. The Lord Jesus did not institutionalize corruption into a Sacrament.

Anyways,

God Bless

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posted on Oct 03, 2008 - 06:05 PM

I think you probably know, from my posts on this forum, that I am not one to steer away from complex logic if it is required (i.e. this understanding vs. memorization thing). But when we have Church Fathers and the Church (whether 1700 years ago or today) saying celibacy is a virtue, in no small part based on clear Biblical verses, there is not much "interpretation" required.

A lot of your post sounds good, but it's based on YOUR thinking. At most, it is based on your induction into certain verses from the Bible.

1 Corinthians 7

1 Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me:
It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. <b>6 But I say this as a concession, not as a commandment. 7 For I wish that all men were even as I myself.</b> But each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that.
8 But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; 9 but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

I simply cannot ignore this.

As for the mind and body thing:

1 Corinthians 7:

32 But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord. 33 But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife. 34 There is[a] a difference between a wife and a virgin. <b>The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. </b>But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. 35 And this I say for your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.

I simply cannot ignore this either.

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You are in disagreement with Church Fathers and you do not have the support of the Church to back you up. I don't know who the clergy you are talking about are, but if they say celibacy is not better in and of itself, ask them "Then why does the Church teach that there is a crown for celibacy, if it is no better than marriage?"

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posted on Oct 05, 2008 - 07:12 PM

Truth.Seeker, the problem is that I don't know which Church Father you want me to agree with, with regards to their view on sex, since they all differ (especially from the view of the Church of the modern day).

Secondly, this isn't about interpretation. Neither the Lord Jesus nor St. Paul said anything symbolic or metaphorical here for interpretation. I am only telling what the Lord Jesus meant by His statements, and there are many statements that if we take them as we usually would, we would be left very confused. Like when the Lord Jesus tells us that there are those who make themselves eunuchs. You know how I can say intend one thing by a statement, and also intend another by the same one. The same goes with much of what the Lord Jesus said: "Who do you call Me Good? No one is good but God alone."

God Bless

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posted on Oct 05, 2008 - 07:29 PM

No, they don't all differ, and I'm not talking about their views of sex, I'm talking about their views on celibacy vs. marriage. What you don't know is that there was a monk called Jovinian who said exactly what you are saying - celibacy is no better than marriage in and of itself. He was refuted as a heretic by any Father you could think of. Jerome, Augustine, Ambrose (http://www.ccel.org/ccel/schaff/hcc3.iii.vii.xix.html). I've already showed you what Sts. Athanasius and Gregory the Theologian thought above.

"I am only telling what the Lord Jesus meant by His statements" is the word "interpretation" written in a long way. What He "meant" is clear, that's why most of what I've been doing is merely copying and pasting verses from the Gospels or from St. Paul's epistles. You're the one talking to me about understanding vs. memorization.

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posted on Oct 05, 2008 - 10:24 PM

So what did Christ mean by His words?

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posted on Oct 05, 2008 - 10:55 PM

Matthew 19:

10 His disciples said to Him, “If such is the case of the man with his wife, <b>it is better not to marry.”</b>

11 But He said to them, “<b>All cannot accept this saying</b>, but only those to whom it has been given: 12 For there are eunuchs who were born thus from their mother’s womb, and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. <b>He who is able to accept it, let him accept it.</b>”

What? Did you think you were going to get me to say something else? You'll have to do better than that Miko Wink.

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posted on Oct 05, 2008 - 11:21 PM

No, I'm not. I'm just confused as to where Christ says that Celibacy is inherently better than Matrimony. Point it out to me.

Anyways, even if Celibacy is better, that betterness could not rely solely on the fact that a person has given up a certain creation of Christ's. That's all I am pointing out. To say that would seem to contradict all the other sayings of Christ.

God Bless

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posted on Oct 06, 2008 - 01:49 AM

Weed is a certain creation of Christ's.

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posted on Oct 06, 2008 - 04:56 AM

It's still not an inherently evil substance. Not all matter created by God has to be USED. Cannabis like any other plant is a plant. Certain plants are harmful and others are not. But the organs on our body all have purposes, as we were created as animal organisms with certain organs that perform certain functions for certain purposes. Anyways, I am not sure where Christ says Celibacy is inherently better than Matrimony. Could you point it out?

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posted on Oct 06, 2008 - 12:36 PM

Revelations 14:3-5

3 They sang as it were a new song before the throne, before the four living creatures, and the elders; and no one could learn that song except the hundred and forty-four thousand who were redeemed from the earth. <b>4 These are the ones who were not defiled with women, for they are virgins.</b> These are the ones who follow the Lamb wherever He goes. These were redeemed[a] from among men, being firstfruits to God and to the Lamb. 5 And in their mouth was found no deceit,[b] for they are without fault before the throne of God.[c]

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posted on Oct 06, 2008 - 12:39 PM

If you didn't notice, in the above passage, it is listing the good qualities of the hundred and forty-four thousand. Apparently, virginity is a better quality than being "defiled with women."

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posted on Oct 06, 2008 - 12:41 PM

I hope this is a little more explicit for your taste, since Christ did not have Mikokiko's concerns when speaking, and therefore said, "Just to clear things up, celibacy is INHERENTLY better than marriage, since it is not enough to just say it is better not to marry."

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posted on Oct 06, 2008 - 04:41 PM

Truth.Seeker, the God of the Scriptures, would never call Matrimony a defilement, not when He Himself institutionalized as a holy union and an important sacraments of the seven most important sacraments of the Apostolic Church. So to suggest that that verse is speaking of Matrimony when it says defilement of women, is offensive and very deceiving. The person safest from defiling women is one who is a virgin. That is not to say that you have to be a virgin to not defile women. That was a very weak proof.

I am looking for where Christ said that Celibacy is inherently better than marriage in the passage you first posted to me from the Gospel.

God Bless

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